I want a marriage to be…
A self-actualization.
If my partner is not supportive enough, if my partner only wants control, if my partner doesn’t know how to manage his own anger, if my partner only wants love without giving love, if my partner can’t behave and long list ifs,
I shouldn’t be settling.
I always want my partner to be very supportive. Helping each others when the time isn’t easy. I want him to be a loving husband as I also will love him endlessly and softly. I want him to be as normal as it can be, as we’re both human beings. We’re two growing adults and I want him to always be open to every changes.
Love is so niche, yet love is the utmost important part. Before love, there’s actualization, calculation, and else.
Love is simple, but sometimes things are complicated.