To Mend Your Broken Heart

Broken. What is that really? You may be left by your loved ones. You may be deal with any other problems. To mend, I used to read novels, watch movies, paint something beautiful. It just heals me right. Remember that everyone has their own choice to mend their broken heart. Never say you can't, because you CAN. And there are several steps how you deal with you broken heart.
Try not to Blame Anyone
Even yourself. or God. Just don't.
You can't blame anyone. This life is too beautiful to waste in blaming. You may think that what's happened to you now is the hardest thing for you, the most painful memories of your life. Don't ever think that you're the only one who feel this hurt feeling. Because everyone does. Even you never know what they have passed, and never really understand. Be grateful! All the time of your life is a grace. To feel the pain is one of the amazing things in your life. Be grateful because you still feel the pain. Be grateful of every single thing in your life!
Deal with Your Pain
First thing to do is Try not to deny you pain. Feel the hurt. Sometimes it sounds crazy, but the more you deny, the harder you'll get to over your feeling. Cry as much as you want, just let it out. Hear the sad songs as many as you want. Because when your heart is hurt, you're out of control. It is often for you to think every negative sides. It is your turn to get over it. To under control or to out of control. Just deal that you're being hurt by someone you really love or someone you really trust. You deserve more than just to swallow your pain. Don't ever ask why if you don't even know the answer.
Healing
Do whatever you want to do. After all the pain you have received, the deal you have made, it's time to heal.  You have to go back to the start when you failed in one of the steps. Replace the sad songs with the happy ones. You may not delete all the pictures about he/she, but remember to delete the bad memories within the picture. You may failed, you may fell, but you it is much better if you learn.

After all I let it be yours. It may not easy as it seems. Just try it. To mend or to drown. Just remember that you're not alone. Why I receive all this pain? Why me the one who feel the pain? Because only you who can deserve that pain very well. Because only who can pass the pain elegantly.
You're the one who know your own weaknesses. Raise. The world want you to shine!